Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Helpless

Felt really helpless when a dear dear friend is so stubbornly err... stubborn. Nothing, that means nothing would ever change their mind. It's as if she had everything under control, when it's clear that she doesn't.  Sometimes I thought I would just walk away. I have done it before to friends who just can't be helped, and I would do it again. It's better to watch from afar the breaking down process than to see it under my nose, you see. Picking up the pieces ain't a pretty sight, you know? I have tried to be nicely honest, even brutally honest, yet they just don't work.
The way she asked for opinions wasn't even asking. She was just wanting to hear what she wanted to hear. When the answer isn't what she liked, she brushed it aside. Without even considering whether it's the truth. As much as  would like to be there for her, my patience has its limit. Maybe it's just time to walk away....

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