In the stars...

Aries, no one has ever accused you of being overly diplomatic. In fact, since you have no compunction about saying what you think, your mouth regularly gets you into trouble. It's true that your verbal outbursts often relieve tension in tight situations, but there are times when kind words are a more effective way to get a point across. Why not try it?

It's written in the stars! What? I don't know how people get through their lives saying what they don't mean. For me, if I don't mean it, I don't say it. As simple as that, neither I go pretending to like somebody when I actually don't. Maybe that's why I have easily counted number of close friends, I might be losing friendship chances with people that will "grow on you" type.

You know, I have been feeling largely guilty about something I did back in November 2010. I was in this very close friendship with these 8 girls, all with the gungho and the cheesy name. We were 'almost famous' during uni time. Then one of the girl, aka bitch stole another girl's boyfriend fiance. It was all pretty maddening, as I was the first one who knew somehow. To cut the long story short, the shameless pair came to the wedding that I was attending. I met them for the very first time and how I hated what they did. All of them hugged and kissed like nothing ever happened. I can't, I just can't! I tried to avoid them, yet the bitch got the nerve to tap me on my shoulder and cheerfully said Hi!

Honestly, I had this battle in my head, whether to say hi back or do something else. So, I turned around, looked at her and then I turned away. From the corner of my eye, I saw her running to that boyfriend she had stolen, and he told her "it's allright", and then they left the party shortly after.

Was I wrong? I know it isn't my boyfriend she has stolen, but as a girl, I can feel the pain. My friend is standing right beside me as the both of them stood hand in hand. Her heart must have sunken, and I refused to accept those people that did this to her. I refused to let them be together in peace, thinking that everybody accepted them. It's horrid, I know.

Thank God, coming out of this traumatic friendship, we found out who is real. Who was willing to cry for us and with us. Thank God for this friends, they are most precious to me.

It's Friday~

and everybody in the office is in a light-hearted mood. Chirpy laughter is all around, it's usually like this, but sometimes the pressure of work and never ending customer demands killed the mood.

Gotten my leave for CNY, will be home for Gong Xi Gong Xi, so looking forward to it!

Bloggers block?

Now I know why, recently I have been watching too much Korean drama, neglecting my book reading. If I don't read, I don't have the urge to write, neither have I the language power to write. Hence, the blank in this blog. Apologies to whoever patiently waiting to hear me, hehehe... I don't think there's many, though...

Will start reading again!
Chiao~

2011!!

1 year no see? Have been a slow start of the new year. Enjoying myself with my aunts who are visiting. Been going out shopping, $$$$ all the way gone. Lots of resolutions to focus on and lots of improvements to make.

Hmmm... Blogging from iphone is not as simple as I thought. That's it for today! See ya when I can catch hold of my PC! Muacks all.

Last post for 2010

Where has 2010 gone? I haven't even gotten used to writing 2010 while jotting down dates and now I have to change to 2011. What have I done for 2010? Except enjoying my job, I haven't been doing anything else.

Wonder what else can I do for 2011? Well, there are certain achievements I wish I could fulfill next year, physically, monetarily and emotionally. Wish I can be more Mahatma, less selfish, lesser tantrum, etc etc.

Learned a lot this year from workplace, how to be a more likable being, most importantly.

Gotta sign off anyway, got company lunch to go, see you next year!

Have a happy wedding life, Cuzzie!

He's an oxen, same age as me, with similar characters like me. One who seemed to be so indifferent by anything. I was in the same primary school and in the same class with him for years, watched him fight with his sister, all with the hair pulling and the biting. Didn't realise that he's now a grown man, I stood there watching his eyes grew misty when he kissed his parents, thanking them for their love and care. As he came down the stage, he saw me, I was surprised that he shook my hand, gave me a big hug and kiss my cheeks. He was so grateful for us coming all the way down for his wedding. I felt so appreciated and touched.

Here's to eternal happiness, may you two bring happiness to each other and everyone else's too....

Hey ho....

When was the last time this blog was updated? Can't even remember....

Have been busy with worklife, going back home for one of my BFF wedding which is also a joyful reunion for all of us. Met adorable new friends, made old friend an enemy who deleted me off her Facebook. Whatever, what I did to her was obviously and agreeably so worth it!

Oh oh and I got a wedding RSVP for next year September, too! Heee... Very happy for the couple. Everybody seems to be getting married, having kids, while my man is nowhere near, sometimes he's there, sometimes just like now, he vanished into thin air. So tired of God's game with us, but hey that means I have other options isn't it?

Tomorrow heading back home again for a cousin's wedding, so this time it's purely family reunion!! Can't wait!!

Pics are all in Facebook, been updating well since I got my iPhone4!!

Chiao~